Monday, November 28, 2011

Bilingualism: Pipe Dream or Achievable Myth?

I speak English, Mandarin, German, Singlish and Gibberish.

 Our former PM and Great Leader Extraordinaire has embarked on his latest project to safeguard Singapore's economic future (among other unnamed policy goals). By the way, if you think the Propoganda Times' website sucks, you are right. Without commenting on or critiquing his latest book (until I've had a chance to read it), this post is my take on bilingualism the way Lee thinks of it, the way policy-makers are trying to make of it, and the way I am doing it.

Singapore's Bilingual Policy - In A Nutshell

Having had a brief stint after graduation as a research assistant for a local Singaporean related to Goh Keng Swee, I had the chance to do some research on Goh's bilingual policy which he had peddled as Education Minister.  The take-home from this experiment was not that it was great for Singapore's economic development, its human resource and all that stuff you would expect to hear from foreigners keen to upkeep their good PR campaign here. The thing to note is how Mandarin was completely removed from the psyche and cultural identity of the local Chinese populations which were a patchwork of immigrants who hailed from disparate Southern Chinese regions. This is why the policy got such vociferous resistance from the masses as it entailed the wipe-out of all dialects -- Hokkien, Cantonese, Hainanese, Hakka, Teochew etc -- from the mass media. Chinese-medium schools were also phased out, but this concerns other goals of the state.

Since then, we've come a long way, and just like the wildly unpopular population-control policies of the past, the bilingual policy has altered our education system dramatically and in an unintended consequence, our national culture. Lee's lament is that Chinese people no longer speak Chinese the way they "should" - perhaps like the natives? I would dispute this, because we were never a nation of indigenous Mandarin speakers, Pu Tong Hua was forcibly named the "Mother Tongue" of the Chinese although my maternal and paternal grandparents never spoke a word if it in their lives.  Therefore, it is a misnomer to say that the mother tongue of the Singaporean Chinese people is Mandarin. In fact it's a gross misrepresentation of our true ethnic heritage.  We never spoke Mandarin like the Chinese (in China) and we never will as a nation. At the very best, we will speak a Singaporean creole -- Singaporean Mandarin, if you will -- and we would never be at a level where our proficiency equals the Chinese in China. I'll tell you why next.

Bilingual Education: In and Out of School
I've written elsewhere in this blog why Singaporeans find it so difficult to be effectively bilingual here. Without going into a diatribe, I would just reiterate that our formal education system plus the social environment combine together to defeat every effort (if there is much of it) of the people to grow up bilingual. It's like living in the US only with fewer TV channels.

I use the phrase "grow up" and not "learn" because bilingualism isn't something you can consciously teach a child to be. They either are or they aren't and it all rests on NEED. Sociolinguists have mostly agreed that  a child uses a language as much as he or she needs it to function in daily life, i.e. get what they want. And in the life of a young child or toddler just acquiring language, you provide a world in which he grows up surrounded by the very tools you want him to use. There is no point pumping him full of Chinese cartoons and videos and hours of Chinese playgroup or drama class from birth till 6 years old, and then at 7 when he goes to Primary School he realises that he only has 1 hour of Chinese class a day. Worse, all his friends speak English, all the teachers and the scary Principal too, and everything from Math to Music is in English. It's defeatist. 

It's also dumb to "expose" a child to Chinese like you would plants to sunlight hoping they would soak it up and miraculously file away the language in their hard drives for future reference when all the time, his main caregivers converse with him in English. Policymakers should wake up to reality and make a call once and for all: treat Chinese like a foreign language and teach it like one (meaning abandon the whole bilingual pipe dream); or go the whole hog and overhaul the education system (too difficult and risky to other policy goals). How to do the second? Bring back Chinese-language schools (in the States they have immersion schools) or start teaching non-science and non-math subjects in Chinese (manpower crunch, no talent). You need to do all that instead of just imploring and haranguing parents to "speak Mandarin" to their kids. How am I supposed to have a conversation with my kid in Mandarin about the science experiment he did in school or the computer lab project he's doing? Ridiculous.

My Way or The Highway
I take a leaf out of my own upbringing as well as research I've done and stories from other parents (in other monolingual countries) raising their kids bilingual or multilingual.  
1. Make your child need it
2. Make it normal
3. Make it fun

The first two I am already doing, but the third I don't know since Chinese language learning has never been very fun for me. At home, I speak exclusively in Mandarin to Ju and I've even armed myself with a big-ass dictionary for the words I don't have a translation for -- like dolphin and whale! In fact it has become so normal for me to speak to him in Mandarin that last weekend, at a party with several non-Chinese speakers present, I continued to speak to Ju in Mandarin. It felt weird to switch to English with him. Where there's a will, I daresay there is an effective way to get what you want. I can't say it was easy from the get-go, it took getting used to, but after 6 months, I can happy to say it comes almost naturally to speak in Mandarin to Ju.

Ju, in turn, loves hearing Chinese rhymes. In fact, when he gets cranky and gripey at any time, all I have to do is break out my Xiao Qing Wa ditty which never fails to get a grin and giggle from him. I even made up my own rhyme in Chinese last week to placate him on a long car ride:

小胖胖,肥都都,他的名字叫 Juju!
妈妈疼,爸爸爱,宝宝长得大又快!

Daniel has less trouble speaking to Ju in German since it's really his mother tongue, unlike my Chinese which is some half-baked remnant of an unhappy 12-year syllabus. Daniel chatters on quite naturally in German to Ju and reads regularly from our German storybooks, unfortunately, Ju prefers songs, rhymes and ditties while being jostled on our laps. Oh well, it's a matter of time. Meanwhile, Ju will get an upsized dosage of German when his grandparents arrive from Germany in January.

So in the end assessment, is it a pipe dream? Will Ju achieve multilingual fluency and literacy?

As much as I like to criticise our policymakers and the social environment, I have to live within this milieu and bring my son up within these parameters. I am heartened that there is renewed interest and funding devoted to improving bilingual education.  Yet I feel like I am wading into a strong current of resistance and obstacles that I alone am inadequate to surmount.

Some experts say, and I agree, that it is a myth to be fully and equally competent in both or all languages. Language is a living tool, and is shaped by (and shapes also) culture. If my son is to be a competent multilingual, it is my responsibility to give him the opportunities and environment to hone and sharpen his tools. This may entail uprooting and leaving Singapore at some point, hopefully, not until he is older.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Toys for Boys (and a review)

So this week I've been wrapping my head around toys for Ju. His entire world revolves around the articles he can reach for in his line of vision, moving objects and blinking lights.  I believe he's at the stage where he's exploring shapes, textures and maybe which objects feel best against his gums.  I like HABA from Germany but it's frigging expensive to buy them from retailers here, so I checked online and Amazon.de stocks a great variety, of course with free delivery within Germany.

But there's also a pretty good online retailer, Cozyiotoys, that stocks a range from Haba -- called Educo -- and delivers free within Singapore if you buy $100 worth. You might be tempted by the Japanese range, they look so enticing, but the quality is inferior to Educo. My friend who has a 15-month-old has tested them out. The prices are comparable to Amazon after you do the Euro-to-SGD conversion and free delivery does it for me. They aren't cheap though, but at least you know you aren't paying for a retailer's Orchard Road shop-rental.
Educo Pull-Along Mini-Block Cart $24
Early Melodies Tambourine $28
 
Educo 50pc Maple Block Set $32
 
Happy Hour Clock $25
(I bought this one to make up a hundred dollars for the free delivery)

I bought the items above specifically for Ju's coming stages of development. They are great for fine motor skills and for teaching him colours, shapes and numbers. When he starts to walk (which I reckon might be soon), he can pull the wagon along. Cozyio doesn't stock the Haba range and I wanted a boy-doll for Ju. Haba has a great boy-doll (and other girl dolls), Lukas, which I will order from Amazon.de:

Haba's Lukas doll (comes with his rat)

The reason I'm going for a doll -- and I've of course lectured discussed it with Daniel -- is so that Ju gets to role-play all the "good" qualities a boy should display such as being caring (no punching or throwing Lukas), being generous (share your toys with Lukas), being responsible (Lukas can't sleep on the floor so pick him up and put him in his spot) and being potty-trained (Lukas doesn't wear diapers, does he?).

The age-appropriateness of a doll would be between 12 and 18 months but it's never too early to start moral education, in my opinion.  Ju will meet Lukas before his first birthday.  At this moment, Ju likes rattles, clappers and chew toys -- anything that fits in his small hands and makes a delightful noise when shaken.  We also let him play with the soft dice (from Haba, a gift from our friends) and teach him the colours when he grabs at them. He seems to get ball-throwing too, though he tosses the ball out of his hands without the ability to direct his action. We just pick it up and throw or roll it back towards him, which he anticipates. He can keep up this repetitive game for 5 to 10 minutes.

However, he still doesn't get gravity -- my attempts to build a tower of soft dice gets little interest from him. He simple swipes at the dice, dismantling the tower, but is completely oblivious to the concept of objects falling from a height. I will keep it up until he gets it. 

POSTSCRIPT (1 December):
The order arrived last night!  It was hand-delivered and I can say I was very satisfied with the condition and the quality of the toys.  Tobi smelt the blocks and declared it smelled like "good paint" instead of some toys which have a funny smell. They were made in China of course, but what isn't these days? They passed quality control I guess. Now to see how long they last. This might take a while....

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Project Baby: 6 Months Old


Ju is a full 6 months old and tipped the scales at just over 10 kilograms. At 75.7 centimetres, he certainly got taller.  The two jabs and Rotavirus vaccine went down well (just a bit of yelling which stopped after Daniel gave him the bottle) and didn't cause serious side effects.  The only effect it seemed to have was to make Ju really cranky and thirsty for a day or two.

Diet & Digestion
The pediatrician announced that Ju was ready for solids -- rice cereal to start with. I didn't tell her that Ju has been wolfing down rice cereal and jars of baby food for the past 2 months! I made my first batch of mashed carrots for him and decided it's too much effort for a serving of orange mush. It's Heinz for him till the weekend when I have time to steam and blend. His poo is now a mushy dark green with the holiest stink, sometimes its got the consistency of plasticine and on two days it got rather hard, making him cry a little when pushing. But we've been giving him lots of water and the stool softened. He's back to his normal daily bowel movement. He loves sucking on a piece of apple but we stopped giving him pear because his super gums bit a piece off and everyone panicked that it got stuck in his throat. He dislikes papayas and took grapefruit juice with a face. He accepts water.

Gross Motor Skills
Since 4 months, Ju has been bearing weight on his chubby legs and now he howls with fury if nobody helps him on his feet if he so wishes. He's been practising being on all fours and simulating crawling for a few weeks now, though he can't get far.  He's been using his head to propel himself forward as he doesn't know how to coordinate his hands and knees yet.  This week we were amazed when he successfuly backed himself into a quasi-sitting position. He's been practising that and now can go from belly to fours to sitting. He's not sitting too stably yet, so I only let him sit on our bed as the last few times on the playmat he lost balance and bumped his head. He howled blue murder. The other milestone is he has learnt how to pull himself up to stand in his cot!  It takes him a while but I have a video to prove it.

Ju is quite strong for his age (he isn't a lightweight either) and kicks and wriggles almost incessantly, only getting subdued when he's tired and ready for a nap. He loves being in the swimming pool and has no fear of water, splashing joyfully with both arms and getting his face and Daddy's all wet. In the bathtub, he sits by himself and grabs hold of the sides so hard we have to pry his fingers away to scoop him out. He enjoys being held while the shower spews out water at him.

Fine Motor Skills
Ju has been grabbing and holding on to things for a few weeks. He can shake his favourite rattle without banging himself on the head and last weekend he managed to hold on to the mouth-end of a balloon for a few minutes, swinging and tossing it about gleefully. His fingers are more dexterous, he flexes them regularly and grabs anything within reach to put in his mouth. He can reach out for toys and go after toys that are beyond his reach. When I tossed a ball toward him, he could follow it visually and pick it up. His interest in objects end at grabbing and licking or chewing on them with his toothless gums. He likes to use his hands to pound on surfaces and recently discovered the buttons on his electric mobile. I don't know if he realises the music changes when he pushes the buttons, but he can spend minutes on end fiddling with the contraption.  He also grabs his feet and licks his big toe.

Social and Cognitive
Ju's vocalising still comprises only laughing, whinging and something resembling cat meows when you rub your nose to his affectionately. Once in a while he makes a funny vowel vocalisation that leaves us bemused. He yells when he is placed on his back against his will and smiles readily when he sees a familiar face. He very obviously gives preferential treatment to his grandpa, rewarding him with instant smiles, giggles and meows when grandpa comes home at 4pm. He still has no stranger anxiety and is indifferent to anyone who carries him or plays with/speaks to him. We are taking bets to see if this is innate or if he develops stranger anxiety eventually. He is indifferent to other children and babies, but he responds happily if he likes the look of you (or the funny sounds and faces you make).

He continues to sleep well, from 8.30pm (he takes about 15 minutes to toss and turn before finally falling asleep) to 6.30pm.  Somehow he has been waking up at 5.30am the past two nights and it's been hell for us. Today my eyebags are evidence of this anomaly. His naps are getting shorter (he takes one after every feed most days) and his demands for attention more insistent. He still has no sense of object permanence which is great for taking things away from his reach. He smiles at his reflection in the mirror, and I get a kick out of him thinking it's another baby. We shall have to see when he realises it is himself.

Coming soon: Toys For Boys

Monday, November 14, 2011

Playdate


Ju's first playdate with my friends and their babies went well....as far as the kids were concerned. There were 5 adults and 4 babies, a roomful of toys and all I remember from the 2 hours or so was a whirl of yelling, whining (from Ju when I left him on his tummy to snap photos) and bits of conversation while trying to eat our afternoon tea and making sure Ju had a toy to focus on.

He was oblivious to the others, with eyes only for the nearest toy that he could chew, bite and suck on. He didn't mind being carried by the other adults and was oblivious even when Minghong's boy (in blue tshirt) took a bite of his foot when he spied his mother holding another baby.

Interesting how 6 month olds are disinterested in socialising with other babies, the 2 year old is completely engrossed in her toys and the 15 month old swaggers around doing exactly what he wanted. Nobody was really interested in anybody else. It made for great chaos of the disorganised sort.